Monday, 25 October 2010

tears from anna

I think this may be my last post, maybe forever.

I am quite disenchanted by the whole wedding business just now.

I want to curl up and forget I ever wanted a hoopla.

Not sure if I will be missed but I will miss you.

28 comments:

  1. Oh Anna, I wish I could give you real life hugs. Take your time to cry. You are having some very rough luck.

    Let me know how I can help.

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  2. Oh NOOO! Don't do that! Tell us what we can do and we'll try ang help!

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  3. :( I had times of feeling like this whilst planning my wedding. I hope you come out the other side and continuing posting as I really enjoy reading.

    I hope you're okay.

    xx

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  4. I selfishly hope that you will stick around because I will miss you (and Tiny Wedding Planner hasn't gotten to answer your question yet).

    I want to send you so many hugs. You've had a lot to deal with at the last moment, and I wish I could make it better for you.

    Also, I am reminded of a post (I believe it may have been an APW wedding graduate) from a bride whose outdoor wedding was rained out completely, and with galoshes and good humor, her guests moved the entire wedding and made it happen -- wet and inside a barn -- and it was beautiful, even though so very different from what they had originally planned.

    What do you need, and how can we help?

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  5. I love your blog Anna so I hope you don't leave, but I wholeheartedly understand why you might. The fiasco with our florist is still on-going 2 months post-matriomoy

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  6. anna, no! you will be missed by me! I know you will be missed by many others too! please let us know if you need anything. i wish you nothing but the best. you can always email me at orangeimpossible@yahoo.com.

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  7. no!!!! your musings are the best! you must stay and keep putting out little windows of internet eloquence!

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  8. Oh you lovely wonderful lady with this gorgeous little blog - you will be terribly missed if you decide to stay away. And I bet all of us planning these weddings recognize some aspects of the "I HATE THIS" feeling you're going through. Things are going very wrong right now, but I know that the core things will work out... even if not in the way you've been picturing along this journey.

    Hugs. Let it out if you can and we're here to cheer. And let us know if you need any help that we can assist with. Truly. I wish I could help in some small way so don't hesitate to ask. xoxo

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  9. Anna no! I would truly miss reading your blog. You have had such bad luck but don't give up. Remember why you are getting married in the first place. Keep all the love in your head and it will help you sort everything out xxx

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  10. Anna you can not throw the towel in! I know exactly how you're feeling, my goodness I had some major crap to deal with in the 3 months prior to our wedding. And you'd be shocked at how frickin unlucky I am - believe me I had some right shit!
    I got through it and boy am I glad I did. You need to stand back and remember why you're getting married and ensure that that is stamped all over your day. Chairs, marquees, bands, djs are nothing when it comes to your ceremony, your vows, your moment.

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  11. it is easy to get discouraged, but you can power through. let us know if you need us. you know we'll be there straight away.

    <3

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  12. Sad face! I just found you!!! Hugs, and as was said above, let us help.

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  13. Oh Anna, of course you will be missed but I understand the frustration that comes with weddings. They are mean, nasty things sometimes. But they are beautiful (if not always in the way we planned) things too. Promise. We are all here to help and cheer you on. xo

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  14. Oh my dear what can we do? Hugs and good stuff coming your way! Expect an e-mail from me!

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  15. dearest anna! I will miss you terribly. I hope to still hear from you in comments and be able to read your words out loud with my awful impression of a british accent. much love hun.

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  16. no one wants to see you go girl. things will come together. 1,000 hugs

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  17. What's up? OF COURSE you'd be missed - but I do hope it won't come to that

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  18. We will not let you go! You are miss super crafty Anna, and despite some set backs, blips and bad luck you will pull together the most memorable of days and be the most gorgeous and happy bride and you HAVE to come back to tell us all about it. End of. Oh but hugs, obviously. x

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  19. Anna dearest, dearest Anna, you will be incredibly missed and I'll be forced to fly down to London and scour the streets for you and bring you back.
    Your hoopla will be amazing even if it is slightly different from your imagined hopes and dreams. You will be wed and you'll, one day, have funny stories to tell the grandkids about when Nan and Papa got married - and how they didn't let any of these stumbling blocks get in their way and how their love conquered and they laughed and danced with friends and loved ones.

    It is really hard to try and juggle everything especially when uncontrollable changes are thrust upon you. Sending massive, massive hugs your way - really I'll fly down there and swamp you with massive hugs if you try and give up.

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  20. Oh no! You can't! Anna. We all love you. No matter what is going on, someone here will have had a similarly crap experience. We are all in it together my dear... lots of hugs, have your cry and PLEASE come back feeling better!

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  21. Oh Anna you can't leave we will all miss you too much.

    I am also having much the same feeling about my wedding...in some ways I just wish it was over.

    Lots of hugs and love

    xxx

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  22. Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh! Dont go away!

    Sending you hugs; there are always things sent to try us but it will all be ok in the end, I promise!

    xxx

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  23. Anna!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please stay! HUGS!

    XX

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  24. Oh no! Don't go... What happened? We will most definitely miss you if you go!!!

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  25. Hugs!!!! Don't go lovely lovely Anna ~ you have kept me sane in times of need and now we are here for you. You know where i am if you need me x x x x

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  26. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. (me kicking and screaming)

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So, I really love all the sweet and/or informative comments that you lovelies leave. Yet if you feel the need to be unnecessarily rude or offensive I will delete your comment and not feel bad about it. So just be constructive alright! Hugs to all you wondrous others.

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